Wednesday, 10 September 2025

From Village Hall to Family Home: Finding Warmth in a Historic Space

When I first stepped inside the converted church hall that would become our family home, I was struck by its character. This house was once the social heart of the village, a place where people gathered for Brownies and Scouts, tea dances, school lunches, wedding receptions, and milestone birthdays. You can still feel that history in the wooden floors and lofty ceilings, which once echoed with laughter and chatter. Part of the house is also the once caretaker's cottage so it is basically two buildings together which is great but does present some challenges.

As much as we loved the sense of community woven into its walls, we quickly discovered one major drawback: warmth. This beautiful building, designed for gatherings rather than cosy living, is notoriously difficult to heat. The high ceilings send warmth drifting upward, while draughts creep in through doors that were built to welcome crowds. On a cold winter’s day, the space feels more like a chilly community hall than a home and this part of the house is unusable during the winter which is a great shame. That’s why we’ve been looking into long-term solutions such as Ground Source Heat Pump,  a modern, environmentally friendly sustainable way to bring comfort to our home with such a unique past.

The hall in times gone by


Why a Ground Source Heat Pump Could Work for Us

The challenge of heating our hall lies in the sheer volume of space. In the past a chimney breast at the far side indicates there was an open fire and there were radiators installed but in this large space, the heat would simply rise out of reach. I dread to think of the cost of multiple radiators heating this space. A ground source heat pump, however, works differently. By drawing steady warmth from the ground a few metres below the garden, it provides continuous, gentle heating that’s far more effective for large, draughty spaces. This is renewable energy so rather than burning fuel like a gas boiler, it draws the heat from the ground and transfers it into your home. It is also extremely efficient, especially compared with a gas boiler. 

We particularly like that ground source heat pumps  can pair with underfloor heating and solar panels to make our home super environmentally friendly. Imagine stepping onto warm wooden boards in the very hall that once hosted 1940's tea dances  or the local pantomime — that kind of comfort would transform the experience of living here - the whole building could feel inviting and evenly warm. We could start to use this large useful space during those winter months for parties and our daughter to play in.

Improving Energy Efficiency

Until then, we’re doing what we can with smaller improvements to give the area a bit more warmth/cosy it up and improve the energy efficiency of the overall house:

  • Draught-proofing the big double side doors where generations of school children once hurried in for their school dinners. 

  • Adding loft insulation so heat no longer disappears into the rafters. The loft space above the hall is vast and I mean vast. It's a whole other space that could be developed in itself. 

  • Switching the current dodgy old lights to LED bulbs, cutting energy use while brightening the tall ceilings and giving a warmer hue. 

  • Installing smart thermostats so we can heat side rooms individually — the little annexes that once served as meeting rooms or cloakrooms. In fact one of these rooms is now our bedroom!

  • Cladding the outside of the house with wood and an insulation board layer. 

  • Secondary glaze the sash windows

  • Having some cosy large rugs on the wooden floor. 

These changes help, but they don’t solve the heart of the problem with our grand hall. The hall was built for gatherings, not insulation, and even with rugs, curtains, and draft stoppers, the cold lingers. The windows here can't easily be changed.

In the past, villagers used the rear garden for a bar area and there was a concrete skittle alley. Today, that same outdoor space could provide the room for ground loops or boreholes to support a ground source heat pump. Unlike an air source pump, which can be affected by wind and weather, a ground source heat pump makes the most of stable underground temperatures.

With government grants such as the Boiler Upgrade Scheme helping to offset upfront costs, it’s a project that feels more achievable than we first imagined.


Hall needing tidying


Keeping the Warmth Alive

What draws us to this property is its role in village life. For decades, it was the warm heart of the community — a place where neighbours came together to celebrate, eat, dance, and share their lives. Now, as our family home, we want it to recapture some of that warmth, both literally and figuratively. We don't want to change the building as there were plans prior to my husband purchasing this property for the hall part to be knocked down. I would hate to lose the hall, I feel like a guardian over it. So it is time to warm this space up. 

A ground source heat pump offers a way to do just that: to take this once bustling community space and make it a sustainable, comfortable home for the future for our daughter who could one day live in that space as a separate annexe. . The laughter and music may no longer echo across the hall every night, but by keeping it warm and welcoming, we can continue its legacy as a place where people feel at home.

Hall when moved in

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Wednesday, 3 September 2025

Autumn is here

 

Home Educating in Autumn: Our Journey with My 5-Year-Old

Autumn is a beautiful season to be home educating in the UK. The crisp mornings, falling leaves, and cosy evenings seem to invite a slower, gentler rhythm of learning. With my 5-year-old daughter, I’ve found autumn to be one of the richest times of year for discovery and creativity.




🍂 Nature as Our Classroom

Most days, we head outdoors, even if it’s just for a short walk. My daughter loves gathering leaves of every colour — her little pockets often bulge with acorns, conkers, and sycamore helicopters. We press the prettiest leaves together for her scrapbook and already line the windowsill with jars of autumn treasures. We basically started on Autumn in August - what can I say, mum is a pumpkin spice latte fan. 

One of her favourite things is watching squirrels dart about, collecting food for winter. We’ve also started keeping an eye out for migrating geese flying overhead, which always sparks questions about where they’re going. We heard some this week which was so exciting after our summer adventures with the swifts, swallows and house martins. 


📚 Autumn Learning, Gently Woven

The beauty of home education is that learning flows naturally from what we notice around us:

  • Science: We will be talking about why leaves change colour. I plan on on us making spore sprint paintings with mush

  • Maths: Conkers become counters, and last year she loved lining them up, sorting them, and comparing their sizes.

  • Literacy: Inspired by the changing colours, we will make up silly poems about the leaves and anything else we see

  • Art: Leaf rubbings ( as may leaves are already falling) have already become a calming afternoon activity, and she loves turning pinecones into tiny owls with felt and glue. My daughter is the princess of glue!


🎃 Celebrating the Season

My daughter looks forward to every seasonal celebration:

  • At Harvest, we talked about where food comes from, and she helped bake apple crumble with windfallen apples we got from a neighbour. We have frozen batches of apple pie filling too 

  • For Halloween, well I am of course obsessed. She enjoys dressing up and is planning her costume, we have grown some pumpkins and we are already listening to not-too-spooky stories.

  • Bonfire Night brings excitement, and we will learn about Guy Fawkes this year while making firework pictures with bright chalk pastels.

  • Gathering wind fallen apples


☕ Cosy Moments Indoors

As the afternoons draw in, learning often shifts indoors. We can't wait to bake biscuits, sip hot chocolate while reading stories, and creating lanterns from jam jars to light up the darker evenings. I have already set up a little hot drinks cupboard in the corner of the kitchen.

Drinks Cupboard

One of my daughter’s favourite cosy rituals is snuggling under a blanket with a stack of picture books, fairy lights twinkling around us. It’s these small, gentle moments that make autumn feel magical.


🌦 Following the Season’s Rhythm

Home educating a 5-year-old in autumn means following her curiosity and the rhythm of the season. Some days are filled with collecting and creating, others with reading and resting. Autumn reminds us to notice small changes, to embrace the beauty of nature, and to make learning feel as natural as breathing.

✨ For us, home education in autumn isn’t just about lessons — it’s about weaving wonder, warmth, and togetherness into everyday life.



Wednesday, 12 February 2025

Starting Over

 Hello! I am back. 

Happy Homebird will be restarting as a weekly blog. All about home educating our 5 year old daughter in the countryside. 

Will be back in a few days with our first proper post.

Shire Horses at a Ploughing Match


Friday, 18 December 2020

Grass-Less Garden Ideas

Nowadays, with the busy hustle and bustle of life, more and more homeowners are choosing a grass-less garden over a high-maintenance lawn. I have to say, I can’t blame them. As much as I love getting out in the garden, I really don’t have a lot of time on my hands to give it the care and attention it needs.

If you’ve never had a grass-less garden before, you might be under the impression that they’re dull, lifeless and devoid of character. Well, you couldn’t be more wrong. There are lots of things you can do to make your garden feel cosy and welcoming without adding turf or artificial grass.

Here are a few of my favourite suggestions for a charming grass-less garden. I hope you’ll give them a try!



Choose a Pretty Patio

The truth is, you really don’t need grass to create a garden with natural charm. Porcelain paving is a great alternative to grass, especially if you’re looking for something low maintenance. Porcelain outdoor tiles are designed with durability in mind, so once they’re installed you won’t need to worry about them looking dull, chipping or tarnishing over time.

To keep porcelain pavers clean, all you need to do is give them a quick wipe over with some warm soapy water. You can see how this would be a preferable choice over dragging the lawnmower out every couple of weeks during summer!

Paving is definitely a good option if you’re designing a grass-less garden. You’ll notice that porcelain pavers are available in a huge range of shades and textures so they’ll complement your garden whether you have a traditional or modern aesthetic.

I’ve even seen some porcelain tiles that have a wood flooring effect. Allowing you to create a real-wood look in your garden without worrying about maintaining real wood!

Paving is a great base for your table and chairs, your plant pots and your firepit – perfect for giving your garden a homely touch. 



Install Durable Decking

If patio doesn’t take your fancy, a garden deck might be a better option. Wooden deck boards and composite deck boards both offer a natural look that’s sure to bring your garden space to life.

If your main concern is maintenance, composite decking is the best way to go. With a polymer cap, it won’t need sanding, staining or sealing. Much like porcelain paving, all composite decking needs is a quick wipe over to remove dirt and debris making it much easier to maintain than an unruly lawn.

Wooden decking is also a good option, but doesn’t have the same low-maintenance properties as composite decking. This kind of decking can be susceptible to rotting and warping if it’s not maintained properly. That being said, it’s still going to require less attention than a lawn so it’s a suitable option for a grass-less garden. 



Take Advantage of Trees and Potted Plants

As I mentioned at the very beginning, there’s a misconception that a grass-less outdoor space is going to feel ‘cold’ and ‘unwelcoming’. Well, I’ve found that one of the best ways to combat this is to add a variety of potted plants and shrubs around on your patio or decking.

These don’t have to be plants that require constant care, they could be something easy to care for like geraniums, petunias, or something edible like mint or sage.

Either way, adding flowers, herbs and shrubs to your grass-less garden will bring so much life and vibrancy to the space that you’ll wonder why anyone bothers to have turf installed!

Sunday, 16 February 2020

How to Baby-Proof Your Garden

Toddler in the garden



When you’ve got a little one on the way, there are so many preparations to be made you might start to wonder if you’ll get it all done in time! For many of us, the focus is on the inside of the house where your little one will be spending most of their time. You might buy a fireplace cover, install a couple of baby gates and start re-arranging your furniture for a bit of extra crawl-space, but have you thought about your garden?
Parents often overlook outdoor spaces, but this is where a lot of hazards tend to live. Pebbles, thorny plants and water features can all be potentially dangerous for your little one. But don’t worry, I’m going to talk you through a few different ways you can address these problems and thoroughly baby-proof your garden.

Garden surfaces

While you want your garden to look great, you don’t want to choose an outdoor flooring option that’s dangerous for your child. Small stones and gravel can be a choking hazard, so if your garden is covered in them – it might be time to consider a garden renovation.
Grass is an obvious choice, it provides a soft, luscious space for your little one to play, learn and develop. Of course, the only downside with having your garden turfed is the amount of upkeep that real grass requires. You don’t want to be spending the summer holidays trudging up and down with a lawn mower when your little one wants to have a teddy bears picnic and enjoy the sunshine!
Garden furniture


A great alternative to grass is composite decking, it offers a forgiving surface that (although not as soft as grass) won’t cause your little one a significant injury if they do happen to fall over. High-quality composite decking is designed not to split or chip, so unlike traditional wood decking, you won’t need to worry about your little one getting a nasty splinter. Better yet, composite decking will last a lifetime with minimal maintenance, giving you more time to spend with your family!

Plants

Having plants in the garden is a great sensory and educational experience for your child. When they get a bit older, they might even help you plant new seeds and begin to take an interest in the natural world (something that’s so often neglected nowadays).
Make sure you remove toxic plants and mushrooms, prickly plants and plants that bear fruit and berries, these plants might look nice in your garden, but they can cause real problems if children get their hands on them.
Instead, you should think about planting vegetables, larger fruits and herbs, the leaves of which are generally non-toxic and safe for curious children to explore. Better yet, if you get a good harvest of carrots and apples, you can add some home-grown vitamins into your baby’s diet.
Some beautiful non-toxic flowers are also a great choice. Pot Marigolds, Amaranthus (shown above), Lemon Balm and Daylilies are sweet smelling, taste rather delicious and will add a touch of colour to your outdoor space.
Purple Amaranth

General Safety Tips

Here are a few other baby-proofing tips to help you keep your garden accident-free!
·         Keep the garden hose out of the sun – If you’ve ever picked up or stepped on a hose pipe that’s been left out in the sun, you’ll know that they can get incredibly hot! Make sure you store them in a shaded, cool place whenever possible.
·         Use plants to protect sharp corners – There are plenty of permeant features in our gardens that might pose a risk to little ones. Use greenery to create a buffer between your child and any sharp edges. 
·         Update your garden furniture – Ditch the glass tables and wooden chairs and treat yourself to a brand-new garden set with padded cushions, rounded edges and removable, washable covers (thank me later).

Hopefully these baby-proofing tips will help you relax and enjoy your garden as your little one explores, grows and changes!

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